Perspective!

Posted: March 5, 2013 by Kara in Uncategorized

Yes that says a lot. The dictionary says that it is a mental view. What is your mental view of your spouse? It can have a lasting effect on the quality of your marriage.

If our perspective is that he is lazy, selfish, etc., then of course, we will treat him like he is all of those things. We should change our perspective and start looking for the good things. Maybe we should consider why he might be selfish. Was it from a childhood hurt, is he facing some trying time in his life? I say change your perspective. Counteract those thoughts. Everyone has at least one good thing, I truly believe that. If it is only one thing you can find then focus on that perspective of him. . Quit thinking on all the negative and annoying things.

The point is, our spouse can change and try really hard but if our perspective is still negative then nothing they do will be good enough. Reach and find the perspective you need in your marriage.

Pray that God would help you change your perspective and that He would help you see all those wonderful things in your spouse. He can do it! He will do it! But do your part too!

Lord, I ask you today to bless everyone reading this and if their perspective is wrong, that you would change it to your perspective. You make all things good, help them find the good in their spouse. Bless each of their marriages and use them for your glory. In Jesus name. Amen

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